tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-24409961515821817972024-03-05T15:38:58.768-08:00insights to the world of an introvertcurlswithgirlshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05779156254365010018noreply@blogger.comBlogger14125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2440996151582181797.post-68166077052593253332017-04-04T07:45:00.003-07:002017-04-04T07:45:57.174-07:00dear duncs 2<div class="MsoNormal">
Dear duncs, not going to lie recently things have been
pretty crap, over the past 5 months I have lost pretty much everything but it’s
made me realise what we really are and who I am. When you no longer have the
things you thought defined you that’s when you really discover who you are,
because is what or who we have truly who we are? Why do we base our ideas on
who we are and what our purpose Is off the grades we get, the friends we have,
what other people think of us, our status, the mindless stuff we post on social
media, our plans and freedom and rambling thoughts? We are none of that. Loosing
lot of the stuff I thought made up my life is making me question what truly
determines who we are? Is it our weird little quirks, like how ill only watch TV
on an even volume number, or Is it our likes and dislikes, our opinions,
passions, desires or what drives us which states who we are. It seems like we
spend our whole lives searching for an answer, a statement which just spells out
what we mean as individuals; like some cryptic code, that maybe if we find out
who we are the universe will stop throwing these curveballs at us. We can keep
on loosing and loosing things, we can fall out with all our friends, fail every
test, abandon all our morals, lose all our faith, erase every positive memory
from your head yet you’re still here, breathing, your heart still pumping,
living, so where’s the line? when can we stop losing so we are just left with what
we truly are. <o:p></o:p></div>
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Is losing everything even such a bad thing? If you have
nothing you have nothing to lose you realise
at some point the risk to stay wrapped
up in your empty shell out ways the risk to bloom. Feeling like you have
nothing is a horrible place to be in. but it has taught me something, there is
so much more to life than now, we are always changing and evolving, trying to figure
out who we are is a waste of the people we all are. Sometimes having nothing is
a good thing because you can truly see how much there is to gain.<o:p></o:p></div>
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I’m going to end this here, stay safe, and calmer tan calm,
lots of love x<o:p></o:p></div>
curlswithgirlshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05779156254365010018noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2440996151582181797.post-86394248709453068782017-03-30T11:25:00.001-07:002017-03-30T11:25:59.751-07:00national autism awareness month<div class="MsoNormal">
There are over 7 billion humans on this earth and not one of
them is the same, that amazes me that every single person on planet earth is so
different, there are 7 billion brains floating around and there isn’t one matching
pair, its beautiful. Some differences are easy to spot, hair colour, height,
and race for example but some things which make us different we can’t see because
they hide themselves inside our brains, wrapped up tightly, fears, dreams, and
desires. The world Is an amazing and diverse place and the way we see the world
varies from person to person too, which is a little bit harder to understand,
like how some people see a glass half empty and some see glass half full, which
is bound to happen with so many interesting and complex brains in the world it would
be ridiculous to think they’d all see everything in the same way. Most of the
way we see the world is processed by our senses, sometimes our brains are wired
in a way where it confuses the senses and alters how we perceive the world and
read certain situations; this is called autism spectrum disorder. 1 in 68
people have Autism, this probably includes at least one person you know, yet few
people understand the challenges and triumphs of living with autism, which is
why it’s important to raise awareness and talk about it, this week is national
autism awareness week, and I want to share with you an insight to the beautiful
and complex brain of a person on the autism spectrum.<o:p></o:p></div>
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Having autism does come with challenges but it also comes
with some gifts as well, people on the spectrum usually have talent in areas
such as science, music, and mathematics, due to the very factual ay we see the
world, some of history’s greatest innovators were autistic, Albert Einstein,
Andy Warhol, and Mozart just to name a few. However, this can also have the
opposite effect, activities most people find incredibly easy a person on the
spectrum may find very hard, such as understanding sarcasm and making eye contact.
Everyone is very familiar with the five senses, we learnt them in primary
school, they send messages to your brain about the outside world and the people
in it, but sometimes a person’s brain and a person’s senses do not communicate
very well making the brain become confused and overwhelmed to the point a
person “melts down” this is known as over stimulation. For most people a shopping
centre isn’t a scary place, some people even find it pleasurable but for
someone with ASD its overwhelming and scary; the lights are too bright, they
pierce their eyes, the sound of shoes on patent floor ricochets through their
brain and ear drums, the constant nudging and touching by strangers in bustling
shops burn their skin and makes them itch, the smell of all the food stalls and
cafes makes them feel sick to their stomach, this is just a general example of
how hyper sensitivity effects people. Unfortunately, most people with ASD can’t
communicate that they are overwhelmed, so even though there is chaos going
around if their heads the outside world is none the wiser. We all develop habits
to help us cope in difficult and uncomfortable situations, like when you’re
doing a presentation you might look at the floor or bite your lips. For an
autistic person, the world presents a lot of difficult and uncomfortable
situations and in intense moments they develop strategies to calm themselves which
might seem strange, such as flapping their arms or rocking back and forth. These
motions signal that they are having a difficult time, instead of judging them
and giving them disarming stares, mocking, and ignoring them get to know them
and understand their needs, despite having additional needs autistic people
share the same need and desire for human compassion as anybody else.<o:p></o:p></div>
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Autistic people are not strange, broken, deformed, or
disabled, they are just simply have a different view of the world, and with a
little time and encouragement from the people around them they might be able to
share their amazing view of the world with us. ASD is a complex and interesting
condition which sometimes makes life very hard, but it’s also an amazing gift,
the condition doesn’t get nearly as much recognition and attention as it deserves,
autism can make phenomenal things happen if people only take the time to
understand. We are a community that does face hardship and discrimation but
have an amazing perspective on the world but now we are just burying seeds
waiting to be given the water of awareness to blossom. This autism awareness
month be kind to everyone you meet, you have no idea what internal battles they
are facing, phenomenal things happen when we open our hearts.<o:p></o:p></div>
curlswithgirlshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05779156254365010018noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2440996151582181797.post-1419626224249226262017-03-21T14:24:00.001-07:002017-03-21T14:24:17.851-07:00Q&A<br />
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What do you like to do most?</div>
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Spend time with my horse and loved ones and eat </div>
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Aspirational career?</div>
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Not entirely sure, either something taht involves helping people, animals or writing</div>
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What makes you happy?</div>
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Lots of random little things, like how the street smells when it's just rained, seeing the leaves grow back on trees but mainly seeing my loved ones happy.</div>
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Best place you've visited?</div>
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Too many, but Cornwall or Brighton as a whole is probably my favourite place in the county to visit.</div>
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Favourite animal?</div>
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Horses or hedgehogs </div>
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What inspired you to recover from your eating disorder?</div>
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One day I reAlised that there is so much more to life than now, I have only lived about 6.15% of my life, I have years of opportunities, love, and positive experiences ahead of me and I won't be able to enjoy them fully if I'm weak and UnstAble. I will miss so much of life if I'm constantly spending my days calorie counting and excercising.</div>
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What animals do you have?</div>
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At the moment none :( I loan a horse though, in the past I've had snakes, dogs, cats, Lizards and fish.</div>
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Best thing that's ever happened to you?</div>
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This is a tough one, I'm so blessed to have the life I do and every experience I've had has made me who I am, I would say being given the opportunity to get close to horses has been a massive blessing. </div>
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Weirdest experience you've had? </div>
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There's two 1) a random lady who I've never met comes up to me saying she knows my name and loads about my life and that she sees an artistic future for me. 2) having dreams that hPpen in real life.</div>
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Worst thing you've been through? </div>
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Loosing a lot of people who I thought were my closest friends and watching them turn against me. And a lot of other issues ill save for another day.</div>
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Best thing you've ever done?</div>
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Volunteering in the summers! I met four of my closest friends there over the pat few years (s/o to Amy, Beatrice, Duncan and Joel)and it's just such a rewarding experience in general.</div>
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Thankyou for everyone who asked questions (special shoutout to loz)</div>
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curlswithgirlshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05779156254365010018noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2440996151582181797.post-90364498989220098832017-03-16T18:35:00.001-07:002017-03-16T18:35:05.796-07:00an open letter to mental illnessDear mental illness,<br />
i know i speak to you every single day and have done for a very long time now but i think its time i adress you on your own, as what you are, not as a part of who i am. its safe to say we have a committed relationship, since the day we met we have not spent a moment truly apart. you have never left my side, or my life, always with me, i tohught you were my friend, you wanted whats best for me but i was dellusional. all you ever were was a thief, you stole my confidence, my passion for life, dreams, goals,and everything i was, but yet like a loyal sheep dog i stood and lsitend to your commands, i tohught you were giving me happiness, becuase what harm can loosing a few odd pounds do.<br />
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our relationship changed me, it made me hate myself, i slowly became you because all i ever did was listen to what you had to say, i now know thats not right. why did you turn my own head against me? why did you make me to weak to stand? too anixious to go to school? you tricked decived and lied to me, i thought you were my friend but i now know you just wanted to see my brake into a million sharp pieces then use them to stab me.<br />
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the other night we were reminisng over old emmories, you pointing out mistakes i made years ago, i remebered a time when i didnt know you, i had a light in my eyes, a fire in my belly, a smile on my face an d a passion for my life. i often wonder where this girl went, the girl who loved life, wanted to make the most of everything, who was the life of a party and never took know for an answer, it hit me, i know where she is; shes not hiding under layers of trying to hard to fit in, or faked perfection, shes not laying in a corner waiting to be found, you took her, you dragged her away and just left me as a skelleton of a person i once was,<br />
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one memory stands out above all i was sitting on a beach, in a bikini, with more of my body on show than youd ever let me think about, eating chips, just because i wanted to, and i had a real, enuine smile on my face, i had a bag full of books dreams and plans and nothing was stopping me, i was in control of myself and i was happy. i miss it, i miss how happiness feels, it is like holding a warm mug of tea on a cold day, i want that back, a life which I was in control of, a life where I was free and I knew happiness. Where I made my own decisions and wasn't dictated to you by you. This isn't right.<br />
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So mental illness, I guess this is me saying I have had enough of you, you have been a major part of my life for so long but nows your time to go. This is hard, ending this is hard, as is ending any long term relationship but it's generally for the best, please take all your baggage, all the sleepless nights, missed opportunities and hours spent worrying, I need my head back for me. I'd be foolish to think this is goodbye forever, I know there will be times where I fall back into your familiar embrace of self loathing and darkness, there will be nights were I confide in you again, as an old friend but I vow to spend every moment of my life fighting you.<br />
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Good bye mental illness, I hope we meet again, when I take back the girl you stole many years ago, and the smile on her face and the light in her eyes. Thank you for getting to know me (a little bit too well) but you've out stayed your welcome. So goodbye for now, please stay away, I hope to one day sat I got rid of you but until then, I will do all I can to see you in my life a lot less.<br />
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Goodbye,<br />
From the head you lived in and mid you destroyed xcurlswithgirlshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05779156254365010018noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2440996151582181797.post-66092131873844451842017-03-04T11:08:00.001-08:002017-03-04T11:52:51.627-08:00Hi guys, this is the first part of a new series called "dear Duncs", which is a series of letters to my non biological brother, friend and self appointed fairy god brother, so here goes hope you enjoy.<br />
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Dear duncs, life is just going on like usual, its raining, i wake up, pull on my uniform, go to school, the same feeling of not overwhelming sadness but no where near happy, numbing me, then i come home eat sleep and then repeat it all. nothings really changing in my life, or the world, everything is the same, i have no news, hot gossip or interesting life insights to give you, which is kind of boring, i know. but the most annoying thing is i see all of this positivity and exiting opportunities out there but i just cant reach them. i look around and all i see is empty people photographs without names, going through the same routine, they're all talking moving living and breathing but on the inside everyone seems dead. it seems like the more time that goes by the more everyone forgets about the very things that make us human, faith, passion, excitement and desires. i am just getting a little tired of having no news, waking up in a word i hate, performing meaningless deeds, making pathetic small talk pursuing empty dreams whilst searching for the real thing. one day the human race is going to break, from too long spent doing the same mind numbing thing. all searching for ways to feel the void inside: alcohol, endless texting, religion, drugs, mindless studying , whats the answer? we all just seem to live for temporary moments of happiness, the rel thing seems so elusive. the worst thing is no one ever talks about it, we have become accustomed to it or trained ourselves to suppress it because sadness means weakness.<br />
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sometimes i feel no one else gets it, but i think you will, like how it is okay to dream aslong as your dreams are not too big because remaining realistic is key, like every single hope, dream and aspiration has to fit into an already built box. everyone seems so out of touch with reality, you know?, eyes constantly fixed on their pones because our own realities are too meaningless. it feels like most people would settle and just survive rather than fight and know what it truly means to be alive. is it stupid that i crave more from life but i do not know what that more is? one day in my elderly life i just dont want to wake up and think i wasted my life away making do whilst i dream endless dreams, and ill only have myself to blame. i cant become that person, i know if i want to escape this same meaningless repetitive routine of life i need to change but i dont even know where to start.<br />
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i am gonna rap this up here, live a full life with a grateful heart, grab every opportunity that is yours to grab, stay safe and calmer than calm,<br />
love your fave tree huger xcurlswithgirlshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05779156254365010018noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2440996151582181797.post-22499261254605125642017-01-29T14:59:00.002-08:002017-01-29T14:59:58.247-08:00<span style="color: #454545; font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody; font-size: 19px; text-decoration: -webkit-letterpress;">Sometimes I miss being sick, the grimiest part of me wished I had stayed in that familiar city of grey and mental illness and whatever the opposite of healing is, where there was nothing to laugh about but plenty to write about. I've concidered myself to be on the road to recovering from my eating disorder for almost a year, but I still talk about it in present tense, just like how I still have all my exes phone numbers saved. For once I don't want to write about this I am finally embarsssdd instead of proud of all the insane things I have done for "happiness". Still, when a friend at dinner makes a casual comment on calories the scoreboard in my head lights up. Once I cut a ribbon, the size I wanted to be, and wore it around my wrist as a sign of my "triumph", bathroom scales make me feel nastolgic, like a scrapbook I flip through, snapshots of my sickness. Reminders of the dinners of tobacco smoke and red lipstick how I used to pack my lunchbox with floss and teeth whitening strips, last night I painted my nails when I was hungry, I couldn't eat until they dried. I am not going to go into more details in case you mistake my recount for an instruction manual, but I don't know how to talk about the rabbit hole without leading you down it. While recovery isn't always tea, yoga mats, and Avacados, it is work, it's reminding yourself that sucking on ice isn't a meal, is asking your body to forgive you because it's not healthy to drink so much water to curve hunger that your body becomes a huge bathtub with organs floating in it. Even though I'm on my way to recovery some days trying to ignore the calorific calculator in my head is like trying to ignore the television subtitles and sometimes I just can't, body forgive me. Recovery is hard work, not wanting to die is hard work, sometimes I still mistake "full" for "fat" and I'm trying so hard not to do that, I'm trying so hard to un memorise the calories in a peppermint. Wanting to die is not the same as wanting to find a home and I'm still trying to remember that. I am on a journey to recovery, it's not easy, I still have a long way to go, but body forgive me for scaring you, forgive me for making you weak and dizzy, forgive me for exhausting you so much with calorie counting you have no energy to do anything else. Body I am here to make peace with you, I am comfortable with you, please forgive me.</span>curlswithgirlshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05779156254365010018noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2440996151582181797.post-731732748240076472017-01-28T06:41:00.000-08:002017-01-28T06:41:07.764-08:00<span style="color: #454545; font-family: UICTFontTextStyleBody; font-size: 19px; text-decoration: -webkit-letterpress;">I never used to talk to people esplecialy new people, until last week and now I now why. I met a stranger who just seemed like home in an empty world, and I don't even know why, I don't know why I want him to know crevices of my brain I don't even dare to look in, or why when I'm with him the war I'm at with my own mind seems to cease. He's just so different to the rest of the clones, he buys things with his heart beat and deals with the currency of time in a place that never seems to stay still, he is a whole galaxy, made of earth and fair and wishes cast on stars, in a universe only focused on instagram likes, grades and fast cars. He has a soul when you're told it's a crime to have a heart. I thought I was the only one who felt things and listened to the universe so hard I heard the ringing between each word and took it as a sign I was being spoken to, who feels so deeply the world is too loud, that's till I met him. The guy who writes poems that come from a soul so deep it dragged me in like a black hole,who lives a life so selfless, his whole self is just positive. When I sit in a tree and look out at the world under me I wonder if I could get so lost I would find myself, that's how I felt when his eyes locked mine. Now I'm well and truly lost with no hope of finding myself, he holds an ocean I seize but to him I'm just a droplet In an ever changing sea. Now I know why I don't talk to people, you can feel whatever you want for whomeever you want but so can they.</span>curlswithgirlshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05779156254365010018noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2440996151582181797.post-10224287317353436012016-12-30T14:09:00.003-08:002016-12-30T14:09:31.726-08:00<div class="MsoNormal">
One of my main passions in life is animals, and I have the privilege
of spending a lot of time in close capacity to animals and it has made me who I
am, and I got that opportunity to do this through Animal Antiks. Animal antiks
is an organisation set up to enable young people, just like me, to find
themselves and shine in their strengths and grow in their weaknesses through
engaging with animals. Through bonding with animal’s horses, I have truly
become myself. When I got to know the horses I just felt so at peace, and the
more time I got to spend with them the more I got to know about myself. It is
well and truly like I have found a missing piece of myself, a piece that quite a
lot of people would call purpose. Even on my worst days I know that I have
something that I can do, even when all the world seems against me I know that I
have some creatures who will be there to listen and just be on my side. I owe
so much to animal antiks, without them I wouldn’t have a life merely just an existence
and If I lost that I would be devastated. The wonderful place that makes me so
happy is about to disappear; the hs2 is going through the farm meaning there is
nowhere for this life changing organisation to do what it does best. So, I am
here pleading with you to share this video or give some money to the just
giving page (both will be linked below). If you can do anything to help please
comment bellow, it really is worth it, i would not be here as i am without them.<o:p></o:p></div>
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curlswithgirlshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05779156254365010018noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2440996151582181797.post-14716235538201283762016-12-12T12:23:00.001-08:002016-12-12T12:23:15.804-08:00<div class="MsoNormal">
Top 15 books (in no order)<o:p></o:p></div>
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curlswithgirlshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05779156254365010018noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2440996151582181797.post-36255197374268006082016-12-01T14:06:00.001-08:002016-12-01T14:06:13.455-08:00dear the girl who is in all myslef selfies,<br />
i really wanted us to work, and fulfil all of those fantasies we'd planed, get through high school together, with many late night study sessions and sleepovers, go to uni together, share a room and paint it as yellow as the sun and plaster it with pictures of us, so every night before wed go to sleep we could remember how great our friendship is. then we would graduate together and party (a lot) take a year travelling creating many more memories, we would eventually go our separate ways, get married, get a job, have kids, grow old, retire and the usual life things, but we would always have each other. but, through it all you would always be a huge part of my life, the chief bridesmaid at my wedding, the first person id tell about my job, auntie to my children and my partner in growing old disgracefully. no matter how great that plan was, life isn't a fairy tale and things dont always work out the way you want them to. and it kills me, that out of all of the things that didn't go to plan, why on earth did life have to screw up this one. no matter how much i want to be with you through all the good times and even be part of a fair few, i just want you to be happy, even if i am am not part of that. please stay safe, remember<br />
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how loved you are and i hope that you have the most amazing life, even if it isnt one which fits me in it. treat everyone with kindes, especially yourself, stay your idiotic self forever.curlswithgirlshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05779156254365010018noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2440996151582181797.post-22867916855192737452016-11-30T10:57:00.001-08:002016-11-30T10:57:15.419-08:00<div style="text-align: center;">
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<li style="text-align: left;">My full name is Ellie Marie Gardner thomas</li>
<li style="text-align: left;">i am a vegetarian </li>
<li style="text-align: left;">my favourite subject is English</li>
<li style="text-align: left;">my harry potter house is raven-claw</li>
<li style="text-align: left;">i love to drink tea</li>
<li style="text-align: left;">i play piano, flute, cello and sing</li>
<li style="text-align: left;">my zodiac sign is a cancer</li>
<li style="text-align: left;">my favourite smell is fresh washing</li>
<li style="text-align: left;">autumn is my favourite season</li>
<li style="text-align: left;">passenger is my favourite music artist</li>
<li style="text-align: left;">i love to dance</li>
<li style="text-align: left;">my worst habit is biting my nails</li>
<li style="text-align: left;">i ride horses </li>
<li style="text-align: left;">my favourite song of all time is yellow by cold-play </li>
<li style="text-align: left;">i take art, drama and history gcses</li>
<li style="text-align: left;">my favourite animal is a hedgehog</li>
<li style="text-align: left;">im 4'11</li>
<li style="text-align: left;">i have a infj personality</li>
<li style="text-align: left;">i once shaved my eyebrow off</li>
<li style="text-align: left;">my biggest goal in life is to make a difference to the world, no matter how small</li>
<li style="text-align: left;">my friends and family call me ello </li>
<li style="text-align: left;">my biggest pet peeve is people sitting in my seat </li>
<li style="text-align: left;">biggest turn off in people is when they judge others</li>
<li style="text-align: left;">i love freckles</li>
<li style="text-align: left;">i want a pet cat</li>
<li style="text-align: left;">wasps scare the hell out of me</li>
<li style="text-align: left;">i give too many chances</li>
<li style="text-align: left;">i write a to do list each day</li>
<li style="text-align: left;">when im nervous i play with my hair</li>
<li style="text-align: left;">i have read 37 books so far this year</li>
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curlswithgirlshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05779156254365010018noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2440996151582181797.post-75840253469680487882016-11-29T13:44:00.005-08:002016-11-29T13:44:41.203-08:00<div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: right;">
she walked herself to a bridge</div>
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not too far out of town</div>
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the weight of her world </div>
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dragging her down</div>
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trapped here on earth</div>
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hiding behind a smile</div>
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she had been feeling this way for a while</div>
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too small too weak</div>
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too far away </div>
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from the person she was yesterday</div>
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she began to walk</div>
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knowing it was her time</div>
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up onto the bridge </div>
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she started to climb</div>
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i saw a peace in her eyes</div>
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which i had never seen before</div>
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an indescribable, unexplainable peace</div>
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which made me want to save her even more</div>
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i watched</div>
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as the words they said</div>
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made the girl who loved life</div>
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wish she was dead</div>
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too much too soon,</div>
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too heavy, too fast</div>
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trying, wishing to escape</div>
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from her suffocating past</div>
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the wind picked up</div>
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about to blow her away</div>
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she decided she wanted to try</div>
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for just one more day </div>
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just too see the stars</div>
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and how theyd glow that night</div>
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then she would continue</div>
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to carry on and fight</div>
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because stars shine</div>
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day after day</div>
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but there is only one of her</div>
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to be taken away</div>
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Fireworks, beautiful, exiting, wonderful, right? Well sure,
if they’re not erupting into the empty acidic pit of your stomach filling you
entirely. Katherine wheels re arranging your internal map, rockets dividing
everything you thought you knew against everything you’re about to find out,
sparklers igniting in crevices of your shell like body you never knew existed.
These fireworks crawl up your throat, the searing pain becomes the only thing
you can truly focus on, they catapult up into your brain as you race against
them trying to save your thoughts from corruption from these fireworks. your
heart is beating with your whole body, loud enough to provide rhythm for every
song ever sung. You ascend into the sky with these fireworks, even when they
stop marking the sky you’re left floating above the world seeing it spinning,
with no way to find control and pull yourself back down into the world again,
everything just a hazy pinprick mark orbiting around itself which you’re
floating further and further away from. tears impale through my eye brimming
and burning corroding away who I was. Nothing makes any type of sense, the world
is spinning at an uncontrollable rate. Every decibel amplifies to hear
shattering volumes, stampeding around your head, everything is too close, the
slightest movement ricochets the fireworks back to circumnavigating my heart,
everything is unfamiliar as if a spirit had transpired from your person to
explore unknown terrifying new places. Lights are stark, pierce straight
through my eyes, shattering my eyes which are glazed over like freshly cut
glass, the world is scary. When the fireworks finally retreat and you begin the
seemingly perpetual journey back to normality you notice your fingertips are
dripping and wrinkled like you just bathed in the vastest horror filled ocean,
your whole body jerking like a car whose engine wont quite start, breathing begins
to starts paining and becoming a chore to your lungs as if something is stuck
inside your chest filling your lungs up making your breathing faster and faster
shallower and shallower like a riptide taking place in a rock pool. You realise
what you’ve become, your whole body starts to ache dully, eyelids heavier than
the weight of the world, nausea sitting where the fireworks live, ready to
sleep but you don’t give in. you don’t talk because that makes the fireworks
angry, so you just trapse along wondering when the fireworks will next decide
to attack. It’s like an everlasting smoke always behind you, lingering, it
stench sticking to your skin but no matter how many times you try and cleanse
yourself it always there.<o:p></o:p></div>
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curlswithgirlshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05779156254365010018noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2440996151582181797.post-61878461536911199232016-11-26T13:55:00.002-08:002016-11-26T13:55:23.556-08:00welcomehi, i am ellie, i hide behind words this is me hiding in a way i want to share with others.curlswithgirlshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05779156254365010018noreply@blogger.com0